Everyone Says I’m Running Away

Once I first began touring, my dad used to ask what I’m working away from with my travels. One other time, a commenter instructed me to cease working away from my issues and to start out residing life. “Develop up,” he stated.

And, years in the past, there was even a weblog known as “Mother says I’m working away.”

I’m unsure why, however there’s this notion on the market that anybody who travels long term and isn’t concerned with settling down or getting a traditional job should be working away from one thing.

We vacationers are working away from duty, being a grown-up, heartache, issues, and so on, and so on. We’re all simply Peter Pans refusing to be “adults.”

Whereas American society thinks touring is one thing everybody ought to do at one level, it’s solely hole years after school or short vacations that appear to be acceptable. Get it out of your system and are available again into The Matrix.

These of us who lead nomadic life, or who linger only a bit too lengthy someplace earlier than reaching that remaining homestretch, are all too typically accused of working away.

Sure, go journey — however not for too lengthy, the world says. Accountable individuals don’t simply journey endlessly.

We nomads should have terrible, depressing lives, or are bizarre, or have had one thing traumatic occur to us that we are attempting to flee. Individuals assume that we’re merely working away from our issues, working away from “the true world.”

And to all these individuals who assume I’m working away, I say: you might be proper.

I am working away.

I’m working away from your thought of the “actual” world.

I’m avoiding your life.

I’m working in the direction of every thing — towards the world, unique locations, new individuals, totally different cultures, and my own idea of freedom. I’m constructing a life that makes me comfortable.

Whereas there could also be exceptions (as there are with every thing), most individuals who grow to be nomads achieve this as a result of they wish to expertise the world, not escape their issues. They’re working away from workplace life, commutes, and weekend errands, and the company 9 to five. They’re working away from the strict path society has laid out as “regular.” The one which makes us senseless ants marching from side to side.

We (I) wish to expertise each tradition, see each mountain, eat totally different meals, attend crazy festivals, meet new people, and revel in totally different holidays all over the world. We wish to assemble a life that makes us comfortable on our personal phrases.

Life is brief and we solely get to stay it as soon as. I wish to look again and say I did thrilling issues and lived life by myself phrases, not say I spent my life reading blogs like this throughout my lunch break whereas wishing I used to be doing the identical factor.

Nobody dies saying, “If solely I had spent extra time within the workplace!”

As an American, my perspective is likely to be totally different. In my country, the accepted path is lengthy and slender: you go to school, get a job, get married, purchase a home, have 2.5 kids, elevate them, after which retire. Solely then, after you’ve put in your time, are you able to benefit from the fruits of your labor. Society packing containers you in and restricts your actions to their expectations.

And any deviation is taken into account irregular and peculiar.

Individuals could wish to journey, let you know they envy what you do, and say they need they might do the identical factor. However they never do. Few people muster the courage to take the leap, regardless of how a lot their coronary heart pulls them. They’re merely fascinated by a life-style so outdoors the norm.

Whereas social media, the rise of digital nomading, and web sites like this have made quitting your job to journey the world or teach English in Thailand somewhat extra acceptable, the final perspective remains to be “observe the trail if you wish to be regular.”

Effectively, I don’t wish to be regular.

I really feel like the rationale why individuals inform us we’re working away is that they’ll’t fathom the truth that we broke the mould and reside outdoors the norm. To need to interrupt all of society’s conventions, there merely have to be one thing incorrect with us. (Perhaps they’re somewhat jealous too?)

However life is what you make it out to be. Life is yours to create. We’re all chained down by the burdens we place upon ourselves, whether or not they’re payments, errands, or, like me, self-imposed blogging deadlines. When you really need one thing, you have to go after it.

Individuals who journey the world aren’t working away from life. Simply the alternative. Those who break the mould, explore the world, and stay on their very own phrases are working towards true residing, for my part. We’ve a level of freedom lots of people won’t ever expertise. We get to be the captains of our ships.

However it’s a freedom we selected to have.

We appeared round and stated, “I need one thing totally different.”

After which we went for it.

It was that freedom and perspective I saw in travelers years ago in Thailand that impressed me to do lead the life I’m now. I noticed them break the mould and I believed to myself, “Why not me?”

I’m not working away.

No.

I’m simply working in the direction of my very own thought of a standard life.

And I by no means plan to look again.
 

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